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Welcome to In The Know: Milestones, a series for parents, by parents. Hear from experts and learn all about the baby products you need to get through every developmental stage.
Where baby talk and behavior collide, it’s your job to understand what it all means. In this week’s episode of In The Know: Milestones, marriage and family therapist Michelle Tangeman explains how to decipher all the nuances of your little one’s moods and behaviors.
As a board-certified behavior analyst, Tangeman describes her practice as “parental support“ and parental education. As your child’s communication skills develop, Tangeman says it is important to encourage them to point and use other social cues.
Next, she tackles crying. Tangeman admits that crying can be frustrating, but explains that it’s important to pay attention to your child’s crying patterns, particularly at the 10-month mark.
“Crying is the only way that they know how to communicate to you,” Tangeman tells In The Know. “My advice here is to always respond.”
Tangeman explains that crying can be an indication that your little one is tired. However, signs like yawning and not wanting to play can also be an indicator that your child is ready for a pillow.
“In regards to hunger cues,” Tangeman adds, “your child could be kind of heading towards the breasts, or maybe heading towards the bottle, or opening their mouth or sucking on their hands or their lips.”
Additionally, Tangeman advises parents to move away from the idea of “the terrible ones“ and “the terrible twos.“ The years from zero to four is a time of development for your child to gain a sense of independence and understanding of the world.
“There’s this strong need to remain close to the caregiver. They’ve formed a healthy strong attachment to the primary caregiver but at the same time, they’re starting to be able to move, they’re either crawling, they’re walking they’re able to create the space, this distance,” she explains. “What you see is the strong desire to be really close to the caregiver, but at the same time like ‘oh my environment so much bigger. I want to go explore.’”
Tangeman recommends two books that are great for new parents who want to understand baby talk and behavior.
The Bottom Line for Baby: From Sleep Training to Screens, Thumb Sucking to Tummy Time, $13.67-$13.99
The Bottom Line for Baby gives parents the rundown on what to expect in a baby’s first year of life.
Babies have a lot to understand about the world and with your help and guidance it becomes that much easier.
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