How to maneuver a complicated on-again, off-again relationship status

Drew isn’t sure if he should make things Facebook official with his on-again, off-again prospect. 

Jujubee and Thorgy Thor help Drew figure out why he’s on the fence about his long-term courtship in this episode of Love Hotline. 

“Historically, I tend to end up with closeted guys,” Drew explained. “Including the guy that I have been on and off with for the last year and a half who is kind of out to his friends but not out to his family at all. And he’s coming back to New York soon. Should I continue this relationship once he gets back or should I cut that off?” 

Thorgy said Drew had entered “Dangerville” and the only way to sort it out would be for him to figure out what he wants out of the relationship. 

“Do you want to sleep with some straight guy and live a fantasy? Go for it!” Thorgy said. 

Jujubee was more interested in how things were in the bedroom. Drew assured he was satisfied in that department. 

“If it’s just a physical thing — have a good time!” Jujubee said. 

But Drew revealed that it was the other guy who was pushing for a more serious relationship. 

“The complicated thing is that he keeps mentioning like being actual boyfriends and that he wishes he had like ‘locked it down’ before he left,” Drew said. 

“It sounds like you don’t want to!” Thorgy insisted. 

Drew still wasn’t sure if he was ready to date someone who couldn’t tell his family about their relationship. Jujubee and Thorgy told him that he would have to decide what he really wanted before committing. 

“Sounds like you have to figure out what you want,” Thorgy said. 

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