A woman shared a text exchange she had with a former date wherein he asked her to pay him back for their first date since she declined to go on a second one with him.
Kyle Estella (@nkesella) said in a TikTok that she drove over an hour to meet up with the guy in September and, according to what she told him in the texts, she didn’t feel “an intense connection” between them.
So when the guy asked her out again, she declined.
In a series of texts that Estella shared on TikTok, the date replied, “You never gave me a chance … You think there’s gonna be strong chemistry in 4 hours[?] Maybe part of that was you never texted me or made the effort.”
Then, the guy asked Estella to pay him back for the first date.
“OK but can [you] pay me back?” he wrote.
“Pay you for what?” Estella asked.
“Parking and dinner,” he said.
Estella went on to joke “do you take Amex?” but the date was totally serious and asked for Estella’s PayPal account.
When Estella replied that she didn’t have one, he responded, “OK so make one.”
Estella summarized her feelings on the matter in the caption of the TikTok: “I’m so done with dating.”
Commenters sided with her and couldn’t believe the “entitlement.”
“I hope you didn’t actually send anything,” one person said.
“Dates are meant to get to know people, second dates aren’t a sure thing,” another added. “Why [do] y’all want [your] money back?”
One commenter even proposed that Estella charge the guy for the gas money she spent driving an hour to meet with him.
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