The woman asked Reddit’s “Am I the A******” forum if she was in the wrong. She cooks all of her fiancé’s meals. When she was eating leftovers from an earlier meal, he insisted that she share her plate with him. He had already eaten all of his food, so she refused. Her fiancé then spat on her plate as retaliation.
“I handle cooking while he takes care of other stuff including rent and utility,” she wrote. “He’s been eating a lot lately [so] I started cooking in large pots and buying extra ingredients. He usually tells me what he’d like to eat for dinner. I prepared his plate and put my plate in the fridge, ready to reheat for later. I went into the kitchen to reheat my dinner and sat at the table by myself and began eating. My fiancé came out of the bedroom saying he smelled the food while he was inside playing video games and thought of joining me because he was hungry. Without even asking, he put his hand on my plate, wanting to eat from it. I stopped him and told him he was being selfish as he already had his dinner, and the food on my plate was barely enough for me.”
Then, things continued to escalate from there and got explosive.
“He made a face and went to grab a spoon so we could eat together,” she explained. “I pulled my plate away and pointed at the fridge, telling him there were some leftovers in the fridge, and he could go ahead and reheat some if he was so hungry. He refused and insisted to share my dinner. I stood my ground and didn’t let him. He got all pissed, threw his spoon in the sink and spat in my plate. I was 100% taken by surprise and was so livid and disgusted. I shouted what the f*** did he just do. He just smirked at me, telling me to enjoy as he walked out. I was so upset, and I couldn’t eat what was on my plate. It was gross and disgusting. I threw it in the garbage can. And he threw another fit asking why I threw away perfect food and [said] he was counting on me giving it to him after he spat on it.”
Reddit users thought the fiancé’s behavior was a huge red flag
“Don’t wait like I did to see what other appalling behaviors your fiancé is capable of,” one person said.
“I sincerely hope that you have already broken up with this man,” another wrote.
“He’s acting like an entitled bully,” a user commented.
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